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Touchy Feely Nonsense

March 6, 2018

One of my sister’s has been demanding a touchy-feely post – so blame her for this….

What is going on…

I’ve spent this winter around Truth or Consequences (T or C), NM.

Truth or Consequences New Mexico Moon Missy Winter

Not because T or C is the warmest place I could find or because there is a huge population of beautiful, wealthy, single women – at least that I could find.

Ok, I didn’t even look…

Ok… ok… ok… Actually, I did everything I could NOT to look!

Anyway… staying here mostly has to do with the fact that my airplane is safely tucked inside a hangar.

When not around TorC, I’ve been a bit closer to Albuquerque. Mostly house and pet sitting for friends. That consumed several weeks and sure was nice to be near friends.

Missy is not exactly “winter ready” but Truth or Consequences doesn’t exactly have “winter” so it all worked out ok. Most of my time has been spent boondocking which is somewhere out of the way without power or hookups. I couldn’t find the energy or excitement to work on the diesel fired heater I purchased last fall so, when necessary, I’ve used a shot of heat from my Big Buddy heater running on propane.

I recently had a really great visit from some friends – Pete and Nannette (and Clancy and Finigan (their dog and cat). These are the folks that purchased my last motorhome – JBAM – when I was making my escape to sea. We all stayed at the Monticello Point campground in the Elephant Butte NM State Park. They over-fed me repeatedly!!! And it was super-fantastic to spend time with them and learn of their travels in and improvements to JBAM. They are from West Virginia and are making a long winter trip the west coast and then back east.

I have done a good bit of flying this winter which has been wonderful. The nameless Van’s RV-4 and I seem to know each other fairly well now and all is going well. I don’t think either of us has scared the other – at least not too much. Of course, some of the modifications I’ve made to her have been documented here.

I spent a good bit of time over the winter attempting to purchase an airpark property in New Mexico. Apparently, bank lending has really tightened up since the housing market crash and no bank is willing to finance a hangar home. The common theme was that it was “too unique” – apparently they don’t like that any longer. In this case, it is a 50′ x 50′ steel building (a hangar) with a one bed/one bath residence constructed inside of it. As someone that really does not like using the telephone and being pushed to talk to SIX different banks, the whole experience was very ‘not fun.’ The deal is dead so that was all wasted time. I suppose it kept me out of trouble for a while though.

I know… I said I would never own a property again.

What’s up with that??

Well, owning an aircraft again has changed some things. Having a permanent hangar and ‘base of operations’ would certainly make some things easier. I am not interested in owning a “house” anywhere. However; a hangar does make some sense for me.

I also gave some thought to acreage on which I could create a dirt runway for the plane. This would likely be in western New Mexico where people are very few and far between. I spent a good bit of time researching that option – and exploring possibilities. Of course, this style of living does NOT align well with my promise to another sister that I would spend more time around people. I also suspect that constructing one’s own dirt strip is far more work than I can imagine. Again, lots of time that feels like a waste but I didn’t get into trouble so perhaps time well spent!

My drive and energy levels have continued to decline and, once again, I find myself in the worst physical condition of my life. I’m not very good with selfies but here you go…

fat lazy pig selfie
It is very frustrating to think of the thousands of miles that I rode my bicycles to get in reasonably good shape and now that is all gone. All due to a speed bump that someone decide to not paint/mark and hide in the shadows. Thank you very much genius speed bump builder(s) – I pray that you never have to experience what I have!

I went to see a doctor who did blood work and found that my testosterone was very, very low. He put me on a program called BioTE and injected a bunch of capsules in my backside that are supposed to slowly bring up the testosterone level which is supposed to fix everything. 🙂

My blood results indicate that my levels are increasing. I can’t say that I feel like a twenty-year old again but I have clearly been more active and more interested/motivated to do things the last few weeks. I am REALLY hoping that we’re on the up-swing.

The bus boys are doing well.  They seem to be happy and they eat and poo like horses!!  They are pretty big now.  Here they are as kittens.

Woody Buzz Kitten Cat Tower of Terror

And here is Buzz now in the same basket thing on their climbing tree.  They don’t even try to both get in it at the same time any longer! 🙂

Buzz cat bus boys

How was that? Touchy-Feely enough?!?!? 🙂

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Comments

  1. Nannette Van Dyke-McDonald says

    March 6, 2018 at 10:19 am

    Hi Jon, I love this touchy -feeley post! Your sister is right 🤪.
    Peter and I and Clancy and Finn really enjoyed our time with you! One of the highlights of our trip. I love the photos of the bus boys….I must say they sure are characters.

    We do hope that some “residence” becomes possible for you….the hangar/apt sounds ideal. I got to visit our cousin’s hangar/apt in Oracle, Az….and I believe it is very cool. Banks don’t seem to make much sense…most of the time.
    We are now at Guajome County Park in Oceanside, Ca. To visit family…lovely, small campground…but oh la la, the traffic is a nightmare!

    Your energy will come back and you WILL get more physically active…mind/body/soul thing. Sometimes we have to make ourselves do things. I have been going along thinking that I lost some weight and was feeling quite good about myself and HAH! I had the scale on a rug….no weight loss….so I am bummed…but I guess I have to keep trying- maybe not eating (that won’t work!).

    Thinking of you and the boys. Clancy and Finn send their bow wows and meows!

    Nannette

    Reply
    • JD says

      March 6, 2018 at 10:42 am

      Ha! Thanks Nannette – good to hear! Bummer about the scale though… 🙂

      Reply
  2. Tom says

    March 6, 2018 at 10:23 am

    Still wondering your weight and height to fit in RV 4?

    Reply
    • JD says

      March 6, 2018 at 10:40 am

      Hi Tom – I responded to your question. Half of the answer is here: http://jdfinley.com/time-to-wash-dishes/

      Reply
      • Tom says

        March 6, 2018 at 9:54 pm

        Thanks, I had missed that reply. I am 5′ 11” and 220 pounds. I fit in a Extra 300 & 330 fine.

        Reply
        • JD says

          March 7, 2018 at 5:19 am

          With the seat/back cushions adjusted for your height, I don’t think you would have any problem with an RV-4.

          Reply
  3. Amanda says

    March 8, 2018 at 12:26 pm

    Take heart I am still reading your posts. I love you and think your selfy looks great. You are too hard on yourself. I wish I could see you more but my life is here in the flatlands and no draw for you. Wishing nothing but happiness.
    Love sis.

    Reply
  4. Ronda says

    March 10, 2018 at 9:29 pm

    I,too,am reading your posts. I admit to being lost sometimes, (a lot) but like hearing what you are doing. We are in Hawaii right now with Mn getting 10 inches of snow. The down side is they called off my work….PAID! Drat! But at least I am warm. I love your selfie, me too!!

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